I Think We Need to Talk
April 22, 2017Don't you just hate that title? Isn't that just the worst? You may immediately feel guilty or may immediately feel curious because there is no way you're guilty...right?
This talk is about cheaters, for cheaters.
Listen, cheating is a huge deal that A LOT OF PEOPLE DO.
A LOT. Like seriously, a lot. I have met more couples who have adultery problems than couples who don't, it's actually rare that they don't. And for some reason we always seem surprised when we find out someone has committed this act. Why? Because that person is someone we're supposed to trust, are trusting (or not depending on how the situation currently is), and will always need to trust.
When you're on a team, do you go to the other team and say "hey, these are our plans." NO! You don't. Because that's crazy. Yet this is something that many people do. Why you being mean to your teammate people? If you wanna jump to a new partner every few weeks then date around and just be single, dagom it. It's truly not that hard. And if breaking up is an issue...GET OVER IT. Break ups suck. That will never change. Just be all "I want to see other people, you were great (or weren't) and I would like to try and be friends but I understand if you don't want to. Thank you for letting me have this time with you."
BAM! Done. Just don't add "right now" or "maybe in the future" crap because that's called "LEADING SOMEONE ON". You don't want to do that neither. Seriously, false hope is agonizing for both parties. And if this person you broke up with says "no" to being friends afterwards, then they either weren't interested in a friendship ever...which kudos to you, you are now 100% free from someone you didn't want to date and someone who didn't want to be your friend....or they need time to heal because they super liked you a bunch, and they deserve that space because its unhealthy for both of you to just ignore those feelings.
Also, never apologize for your feelings. THIS IS FOR EVERYONE. Your feelings are yours and you shouldn't have to ever apologize for feeling a certain way. EVER. It's your life, embrace your feelings and share them with confidence. That's attractive. Just don't be whiney if you do.
Maybe you're one of those people who just really like the thrill cheating brings.
You: "MUAHAAHAA I have a secret that no one knows and I'm a master of deception, FEAR ME!"
Calm down you. No one thinks you're a master of deception and you are honestly just pissing people off. It's not cool to be hateful. It's not cool to be a player. Drama is not cool. But you will probably always feel awesome doing this and nothing I say is going to change how you feel about playing the situation. Just know that you're incredibly lonely, want love, and are destroying all the relationships in your life and will always feel lonely and no one will trust you. I feel bad for you. I'll pray for you. But the first step is accepting you are a loser and need help and need change. Therapy- my dear narcissistic friend. Then you will feel the love you deserve.
WHY YOU TALKING ABOUT DIS MAKYLAKA?
If you want to read, highlight this wide open gap/space.
Because I was reconnecting with someone I knew from a few years ago that I found out was more than single and talking to countless other females and I think that's BS. This guy and I were not talking for intent (at least I wasn't) but his girlfriend and I talked this morning, a very civil conversation, and I decided that this guy is 100% a jerk/butt/a-whole.
Along with this I found rumors about myself that I was unaware were floating around. If you have heard rumors about me, please disregard. I'm sure it's old high school BS, but that's all it was. #HSBS (high school BS).
Another thing, I don't like to associate with Cheater McCheatfaces. I don't care how close of friends we are, I'm not afraid to chew someone out about cheating, or drop someone for doing it. It may not be my business, I don't care. I will not tolerate it.
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